I've posted elsewhere, but in short v difficult ex and all sorts of abuse and after three months of all sorts I've reached watershed moment, helped by him not wanting any contact with DS.
I don't have parents and one good bit of support at times has been ex's mum. She has decades of his behaviour and while she hasn't taken sides, does do things for GS and has spoken out re some of the things he has done. So reasonably supportive and also fit, healthy and lives not too far away.
So I want to approach her re some regular arrangements as I get stressed by ad hoc stuff - ex was always dropping in and out of DS's life.
I was thinking of posting on gransnet, but thought I'd ask her first about how to approach her. What is reasonable to ask now that ex is effectively out of the picture.
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