It's late and I should be in bed but I can't sleep. My man can be the most wonderful guy but he has a big problem, his anger. He can snap for anything! After having been together for over three years I have learned to tip toe around certain subjects, how to response to his anger but I'm sick of it and in the end of the day - I deserve better!
Today I had it with him. We were in town with our son (14 months old) and he was upset and grumpy. OH said he must be hungry so we bought something. "Where's his drink?" OH asked, "oh I must have forgotten it at home" I said. "How the f can you go around town all day without a drink for him!?" F that and f this we bought a drink, not big deal. I then noticed that his nappy had leaked (use cloth nappies so it happens sometimes) and he was wet, that's why he was upset "You're F stupid aren't you!?" my OH shouted at me and kept going on. I just had enough told him to f* off and walked away. I never do that. I very very rarely tell him back, thinking I should be a better example.
Now he's angry with me and hasn't spoken to me all night. How how how am I going to deal with this? I hate this side of him and it's not good in front of our son. He needs to learn how to deal with his anger but I'm at loss here... Myself I'm a very calm person that never gets angry with anyone. I just don't understand him at all. Why can't he just take it easy? To me, it's disrespectful, the language two people use in a relationship means a lot. Words hurt and makes me feel so little.
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Do I not deserve some respect?
misslinneaflower · 01/09/2011 23:54
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