Hello,
This may sound rather odd to many but i'm not really sure where else to go for advice. I have been with my boyfriend for nearly 3 years, we live together and get along really well, i am pretty sure that he is matched perfectly to me... The thing is, in the last couple of months he has become less interested in me... He has a new job and is working long hours, but has stopped appreciating the things that i do (that he used to) such as cooking dinner, cleaning the house, even making myself look nice for him. He gets home from work and would rather go to sleep and pretend that i'm not around. Whenever i ask him why he is ignoring me he claims that he isn't. I myself will admit that it's not blatant ignorance, i guess i just want a bit of attention. Is this selfish? I have begun exercising and attempting to loose weight to spice up our sex life, but once again i feel as if he is not interested... or as he says 'too tired'. I always thought it was the man who was supposed to be craving sex... i feel as if sometimes i am begging him to love me...
I know it sounds as if he is an ignorant bastard from what i have said but the problem is that he is a wonderful person and i love him dearly...
I just want him to notice me...
If anyone can help, i would be more than grateful...
Max
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Maxine28 · 29/08/2011 00:21
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