I'm looking for some advice about DV and would really appreciate some thoughts from anyone who experienced it as a child, if it's not too painful. I've posted about this before but have name changed as it's about family members.
SIL and BIL are always rowing, often in front of the kids (15 and 9) and it oftens ends in SIL hitting BIL. Recently BIL retaliated and hit SIL. dneph (15) saw all this and called the police. Dniece was with us thankfully but I'm pretty sure she has witnessed things.
Leaving aside BIL and SIL for now, I'm worried sick about the kids and how this will affect them. I've given them both my number and told them to come to our house any time if they need to.
For those of you who grew up with this, or have any other experience, can you advise me how best to help the children? Thankfully this violence is only ever directed at each other but I can't help worrying that one of the dcs will end up in the middle of it, especially the older one as he's a big lad now and can probably stand up for himself if pushed. It's mainly SIL who is actually violent but the rows are plenty.
I worry for them so much .
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bigfatgypsy · 27/08/2011 10:48
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