i was looking after dh's phone whilst he was doing something and for some reason i started looking at messages. he's not v good at using txt messages so wasn't surprised to see v little but one number did have quite of "lovely to see you" etc type messages but the one that upset me was when i looked at sent folder, he replied to that number with "me too xxx". dh is not the most affectionate person in the world (he used to be) and this has upset me unexpectedly. the number is not saved so i don't know who it belongs too. before i get myself into a state, i was hoping one of you could call the number, hopefully it goes into voicemail and let me know who it is? i know even if it turns out to be her sister or something equally innocent, it probably means there is something wrong with our reln if i can think he can do this, but please if you can help, can you just do this one thing and don't be too harsh on your judgement?
thanks
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pls can one of you help without judging?
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plscanyouhelp · 22/08/2011 18:31
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