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hariboegg Mon 22-Aug-11 08:13:50

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lifechanger Mon 22-Aug-11 08:24:32

Give it time, and talk it through with nm - this will be a good test as to how empathic and kind he is...

SirSugar Mon 22-Aug-11 10:08:40

Probably natural. I occasionally get the same sort of thing with DP, except that H died (abusive man).

I sometimes think I'm on holiday from H and he will be back then realise I'm 'on holiday' forever. its a bit weird but I think its probably normal.

I wouldn't want H back, but having spent 15 years with him and 2 DCs I think the massive life change since hes gone plays tricks on my mind with me thinking I'm still in my old life IYSWIM

SirSugar Mon 22-Aug-11 10:15:36

This is difficult to explain, but even though I would never wish to go back to my life with H, I sometimes think I wish it could still be the same. I hated it so I don't quite know why I think like this and I am very content with my new life.

I think it may have something to do with adjusting to a new lifestyle when there has been a massive upheaval and even if your previous lifestyle was difficult at least you knew what to expect.

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