Two weeks ago we had sex for the first time since DH was born - that's 8 weeks. I didn't enjoy it at all. I felt tense and frightened that it was going to hurt me. DH was very sensitive and sweet but I just couldn't relax. The sex itself felt really different. I felt huge and couldn't feel nearly as much as I used to.
The whole thing really upset me and now I am just cold-shouldering him sexually. He knows how I feel and has tried to be understanding but I think he's starting to get irritated and upset himself.
Will I naturally 'tighten up' any more? I have been doing my pelvic floors and continue to do so. What should I do to help me relax and enjoy it again?
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easytiger12 · 21/08/2011 21:51
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