Out last night with friend and his new partner.
He was widowed in feb this year, we were very good friends with him and his wife, had been for about 15 years. I miss her terribly.
None the less, he has accidentally met this lassy and she is lovely, she is great with his children and he is obviously very happy.
I get on very well with her.
Inevitably, the conversation came round to his wife and things of the past, and his children. I found myself getting a bit tearful at times talking about her and her children.
I was VERY concious of the new lass's feelings and what she must have felt hearing all of this. She was quiet at times.
She did not make me feel uncomfortable about talking about our friend, but i hate to think that i made her feel uncomfortable by talking about her.
Cant see the woods here for the trees as i feel i am still grieving for my lovely friend.
Should i just avoid all talk of my friend to save her feelings? whats the best way to go, as i think that this lassy is in it for the long run.
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mrsnesbit · 14/08/2011 11:06
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