My friend and I were talking about this last night.
I wouldn't be able to let my husband as I look crap naked dont have the self confidence!
Her husband has asked her could he take some pictures of her and/or a video. She is not sure. She has been married to him for over 20 years so she isnt worried that he will pass the pictures/film around.
Do you think she should do it and if yes have you got any tips?
Have any of you done this and been pleased with the outcome or regretted it?
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Would you let your DH/DP take "sexy" pictures of you or film you for his personal pleasure?
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NotEnoughTime · 13/08/2011 15:40
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Cheaptrick ·
13/08/2011 15:45
I once got a new swimsuit that didn't cover everything and i took a photo and txt it to my DH when he was in work - it was the best weekend of sex we ever had 
If its your DH and you trust him then i dont see why not. But you need to talk about what he likes and what you are willing to do and feel comfortable with it.
squeakytoy ·
13/08/2011 15:45
I suppose it is all dependent on trust. I know my husband would not show anyone else, and he knows I wouldnt, if we were to do this.
If she isnt worried, and she is happy to do it, then she should go for it.
I dont think I could bear to see my wobbly bits on screen!! 
TheFlyingOnion ·
13/08/2011 15:53
I would definitely be ok with this.
I wouldn't be with anyone I didn't trust, so thinking they were going to show them around wouldn't be an issue.
Your DP wants to take photos/video because he thinks you're gorgeous - that's enough to boost my ego to do it!!
Malificence ·
13/08/2011 15:59
I wish mobiles with cameras / internet / webcams had been around when DH was in the Air force 20 years ago. 
I had a fabulous body at 25 He had to make do with some pics of me in a bikini and a pair of my knickers.
TheFlyingOnion ·
13/08/2011 16:08
My ex was Army and took a couple of home videos off to Afghanistan with him. Kept him going for the whole tour
ALovelyBunchOfCoconuts ·
13/08/2011 16:19
A friend of my DH's borrowed Dh's phone and DH totally forgot what was on there. Said 'friend' consequently decided to be nosey, and then show his other mates. DH went mad and I was left very red faced indeed and see his friends on a regular basis.
Ok the pics were pre children and I did look good but still. I've never been so embarrassed.
NotEnoughTime ·
13/08/2011 16:37
I have just rang my friend and told her what you have all said.
I think if she downs a large bottle of red first she is going to do it tonight!!! I didnt chat to her for long as she said she had lots of things to do ie waxing, plucking, exfoliating etc but I wished her loads of luck in her new career
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lazarusb ·
13/08/2011 17:35
I'd make sure I'd sorted out some good lighting first but I'd be more than up for it!
AnyFucker ·
13/08/2011 18:25
Yes, have done this, but played it back the same day then deleted it
Same with any photos
The minute you start "storing" them, you take the risk of forgetting about them, losing them or otherwise falling into the wong hands
It can be fun for an evening, but I would always make sure all traces were destroyed (until the next time 
)
fgaaagh ·
13/08/2011 18:46
no i wouldn't
no trust issues, i've just seen quite a few cases where things have got mislaid / mixed up
DH left his personal laptop in an airport once (no password, we had to change all 4 bank account logins because he'd stored the passwords somewhere on them, casued quite a bit of worry) - it ended up getting handed in after someone saw him leave it, and they'd reported it to security. but a worrying period where he didn't know where it was.
i've also had my bag stolen (well, snipped - pickpocket snapped the handle whilst his partner bumped into me) when I was in london last year, complete with my mobile phone, all my cards, keys, everything - i wouldn't want a disk or a mobile with anything personal getting mixed up like that. i've also been burgled at our old house, about 5 years ago, where they took DH's work laptop and a few other bits and pieces (and loaded into OUR car 
to steal that too).
i've accidently emailed a few things to the wrong person before. in fact that's happened more times than i care to remember! so i can't even trust myself not to share some bits and bobs!
lazarusb ·
13/08/2011 19:01
It does concern me that we might up end dead earlier than we expect and a family member comes across the toy, photos etc.... Mind you, it would be funny if it was MIL!
bestfootforwards ·
13/08/2011 19:09
A couple of years ago I was back at my parents and my dad offered to show me the pictures from their skiing holiday, unfortunately he had forgotten that amongst them were some pictures he had taken of my mum in her underwear. Was a bit of an awkward moment 
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bestfootforwards ·
13/08/2011 19:09
A couple of years ago I was back at my parents and my dad offered to show me the pictures from their skiing holiday, unfortunately he had forgotten that amongst them were some pictures he had taken of my mum in her underwear. Was a bit of an awkward moment
Fluffycloudland77 ·
13/08/2011 19:44
Bestfoot thats awful.
I wouldnt because DH's work mates do this and they do get passed around, my DH says he doesnt look .
One memorable one was a girl giving one of them a blow job, and that was someone he REALLY liked and lived with.
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