How do I broach the subject of improving sex life when you partner takes things personally??
Sex has never been amazing for me, just not how I get pleasure, I prefer foreplay to actual intercourse. So sex has always been something I do for OH, but am aware that this is a bad attitude to look at it. It doesn't help that I have a very low sex drive so don't really ever NEED sex.
Talked about it a bit with OH last night and mentioned getting a small bullet vibrator to use during sex so that I can get a bit more from it, and he took the personally as me saying he's not enough for me, which I definitely didn't mean! How do I improve our sex life without insulting/upsetting OH!?
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NeedSatisfaction · 12/08/2011 14:24
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