Just need a rant and to get this off my chest really. Been dating someone since early June that I met off a dating site (started chatting in may) so not that long. Just seeing each other as and when, had some lovely dates...always got on well, lots in common. Nothing physical happened until a few weeks ago, until then it was just kisses good night. I wasnt really that attracted to him at first and he grew on me really. Anyway to cut a long story short he suggested we have a night out, and as he works early shifts he took the day off. Had a lovely night out and I stayed over at his. This is where things seem to have gone wrong. He started backing off, cancelled next date, then ignored me. So I must admit I sent him a text saying he had suprised me and I didnt think he was like that, as I genuinely didnt.
Anyway after telling him what I thought, he tried to tell me he had just been busy! Which you might say is fair enough, but when someone has been texting you every day since may always making all the first moves and they suddenly cant even be bothered to text you back it doesnt sit right. So we didnt text for a week. I ended up texting him a week later, and he replied saying he used to get accused of all sorts from his ex so just ignores everything now and thats why he ignored me.
So we starting talking again and I suggested we do something for his birthday which was last week. He then invited me to his place, made me dinner and we sat chatting all night, I stayed over again. He went away at weekend and I havent heard from him since! I text him sun to ask if he had a nice weekend, then casually sent another yesterday...nothing...nada??
I just dont get it, how can a man go from spending a lovely evening with someone, telling them how lovely they are, how nice they look to ignoring them? Is it me or is it just weird behaviour. I could understand if we didnt have much in common and conversation had been stale, but it wasnt. Is it just a man thing, or am I missing something?
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Why do men do this...dissapearing act??
Betty79 · 09/08/2011 18:56
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