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feel like i am making a mess of things, need clarity

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hariboegg Tue 09-Aug-11 11:12:27

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DoMeDon Tue 09-Aug-11 11:29:26

Be honest with yourself and factual - write a list of pro/con for XH. Ask yourself if you really want him/miss him/love him.

Could it be the weekend away was so good it made you feel uncomfortable. If you are used to unhappiness then a change to happiness may feel weird to you. Just a thought. Am sure if NM is loveliness personified he will understand divorce is a difficult and confusing time. You need space to think and grieve for past relationship.

hariboegg Wed 10-Aug-11 11:26:57

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