Our relationship is vile, horrible, awful.
We will have to split to protect the children it's got so bad.
i actually feel that all the trauma has robbed me of the nice side of my personality, I'm cold, vindictive, resentful, paranoid. I have violent mood swings which result in terrible rages.
If it wasn't for my children I would die, literally just go. I've screwed up my marriage, I've not really got many true friends, I just don't get on with people. I've consistently failed academically, my parents are disappointed, I didn't live up to expectations. I actually hate myself, I think my children would be better off without me but I don't want to upset them.
when we split I will be so lonely, because I'll have no mates, they will all side with him. I'll have no money, I've been crap at managing myself all my life, i'm so disorganised I end up turning the house upside down looking for things daily.
Everywhere I go it's like happy memories of the good times (6 years of them) are punching me in the face, every single street and landmark I remember us when we were good. I can't face the future as i know I'll just be lonely and miserable. I actually feel mad when I'm angry like I'm losing it, like I might get in the car and drive off a cliff. I don't know what to do.
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I think this relationship has actually made me lose my mind...not the person I used or want to be
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scarygoat · 06/08/2011 19:51
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