"I would leave it it weren't for the children" seems to keep coming up again and again and again, ad nauseum.
So I thought I'd ask you all to think back to your childhoods - if your parents had stayed in an abusive, uncaring, or otherwise unwise relationship for your benefit, would you be grateful?
My personal experience is that I rather suspect my mother would have left my father 25 or more years ago if it hadn't been for us. And I wish she had - not that I would never have wanted to see him again, I love my dad, but their toxic marriage poisoned all of our childhoods.
Should couples stay together solely for the kids?
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honeyandsalt · 06/08/2011 15:57
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