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How to spot a Loser... AF, or other relationship gurus, please help!

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FiniteIncantatem · 04/08/2011 23:43

I am trying to find the link, that i am sure is called 'How to spot a Loser'. It has a great section at the end about how to dis-engage from an emotionally abusive/ controlling ex partner.

I was convinced that I had bookmarked it, but I can't find it and I would really like to send it to my friend. I would be really grateful if someone could link to it as I have tried google-ing and haven't found it yet.

Thank you so much in advance.

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Eurostar · 04/08/2011 23:44

www.drjoecarver.com/clients/49355/File/IdentifyingLosers.html

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FiniteIncantatem · 04/08/2011 23:46

Thank you so much! I can finally go to bed now.

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Eurostar · 04/08/2011 23:47

sleep well :-)

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BelleDameSansMerci · 04/08/2011 23:48

Just look at whoever I'm with...

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FiniteIncantatem · 05/08/2011 00:01

Ah Belle, that was me for a long while, but I think i've finally learnt!

My friend has been doing a merry dance with the same bloke for 18 months now and I really need to get her to realise that any contact is a way in for him. I'm hoping if a Psychologist tells her, she may listen... eventually!

Thanks once again, Eurostar!

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BelleDameSansMerci · 05/08/2011 00:01

I gave that info to a friend too - it did make a difference...

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