I have been seeing a lovely guy for about 6 months now. All going fantastically well, exclusive and definitely serious, I've never been happier, though we haven't quite got to the "I love you" stage yet.
Thing is, I'm 38 this month and he's just turned 33. We met on a night out through mutual friends and hooked up before he knew how old I was (most people tend to underestimate my true age by a few years, lucky me), but he knew before he asked me out on a second date.
I tend to think that in your thirties that sort of age difference doesn't really matter from a compatibility point of view- I certainly don't have any concerns about him not being mature enough. TBH I'm not psychologically desperate to have DC soon (I don't have any yet, depite being a fan of MN) but I am aware that, physically, I probably need to get my skates on. Don't want to spook him by discussing it yet, but he's bound to have realised that.
Has anyone else been in a similar position? Any advice?
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5 years older than him - does it matter?
weejimmykrankie · 04/08/2011 14:52
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