Hi this is my first thread. Im just a bit worried about DH
I have a friend who I met a few years ago. DH doesn't normally get on with my friends but he seemed to get on with this girl really well. I was so happy that he finally liked one of my friends.
When I got pregnant he started to go out to a club with her (and a few others, but not his friends, they were hers), which I have no problem with, I was tired and fat and didn't want him to be stuck in with me being bored while I slept lol. But then it was every weekend. It cut down after dd was born, just going out once maybe twice a month. Again not really bothering me. Then I start to notice he was commenting on A LOT of her facebook statuses and photos, nothing bad but he never does that on mine. Then last week we both went out and she was there and this is where I got a bit uncomforatable with it all. When he hugged her hello he hugged her for ages and kind of nuzzled into her hair/neck. It made me feel really weird about it, I'd never hug one of my male friends like that and we were talking and I said 'Im going to find sister in law up by the other bar' (we came out with SIL and BIL, I felt rude that we'd left them for a while) and he said 'I'll find you later, Im going to hang out here for a bit' and then came to find me half an hour later. If I had said that I was staying to hang out with a male friend rather than talk to him he would go nuts.
I don't know what to make of it??
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What would you think?
FrenchRuby · 03/08/2011 18:37
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