Hi, I haven't posted before, in some diffs and don't know what to do.
With DH 15 years, married 7, 2 dd, both preschool. Relationship with DH patchy at best, get on well as friends and intellectually, but little emotional or sexual interaction for past no of years. DH pretty useless husband at times, thoughtless, selfish, getting into financial diffs and drinking too much for my liking but I've always stood by him. He's a fantastic dad though.
Have developed a major crush on another man at work who I think has reciprocated my feelings, but just casual chat at present. I haven't felt this way about someone since before I met DH, but perhaps its just infatuation? I would like more with him but such guilty feelings re DH and DDs. I'm scared that I'll end up spending the rest of my life with my DH who I don't think I love. Sorry but very confused feelings about everything at the minute, can't think straight! Have talked with DH re problems and he's agreed to change but I don't know if I could be bothered with this! Giving other man mixed hot and cold messages as guilty feelings arise, still fancy the pants off him though.
Hope someone can offer some advice.
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shoelover · 26/07/2011 21:38
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