My DH and I have been together for 3 years, married for one and have a wonderful wee lad, aged 6 months.
When I first met my DH 5 years ago he was in an unhappy marriage. I was single. We became friends and after a while realized we had feelings for each other. DH was in the process of leaving his wife about this time and eventually he moved in with me.
Fast forward to early last year when my MIL was ill with cancer, which she sadly died from, leaving behind my FIL.
Since then, my FIL has been seeing my DH now ex wife as friends!!!?? Our relationship with my FIL has been sporadic, with him popping over to see us every couple of months - he's only seen our son a handful of times. He lives 20 mins away from us and has made a point that we are not welcome at his house, he never answers the phone, rarely replies to emails. In effect has distanced himself from us and only really sees us out of duty I think.
Yesterday, DH recieved an email from his father saying that my DH ex wife is moving in with him and basically that they are together, something we had suspected a couple of months back, with a added note at the bottom of the email he will be in contact with us shortly! My DH feels very hurt and angry, so do I!!
My question is, would you cut your losses and cut contact altogether with FIL?? Or is there another way round this to maintain a relationship with him?? Probably not, but worth asking!!
Sorry, this is a bit long, just realised after I re read it!!
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nesslassie · 22/07/2011 15:08
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