I am starting to feel at the end of my tether with my ex.
The main issue I have with him is regarding my children, I have done my best to facilitate contact between him and DC but he only seems to be interested in them when he is either
a) trying to get back together with me - this will NEVER happen.
b) trying to control me - he believes that as I am the resident parent that he is entitled to know where I am, who I'm with, what I'm doing, in fact every little detail of MY life. Even that which does not directly concern the DC.
As he lives a considerable distance away (approx 230 miles) I agreed that he could visit the DC at my house. This has been terrible as he treats our (mine and DC) home with no respect. He also stole money from me last week so I no longer want him to be here. Certainly not overnight.
It isn't really feasible for him to have the DC where he lives either, he gave up his rented house last month and has moved in with his mum. There are a lot of reasons why I don't want him to have unsupervised contact with the DC where he lives.
I'm just so fed up of the arguing, the threats, the emotional blackmail, and the lies. Everything just feels like an upward battle all the time. I'm tired and my poor children, well I don't even know where to start about their feelings and the effect this has on them . . .
I feel like just refusing contact and let him take me to court to get it all sorted out that way because whatever I do, whatever I offer, it's never enough for him
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HairExtensions · 21/07/2011 23:59
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