Don't you trust me?

[Millington]

What can you say to this question when you desperately want to trust the person but have some suspisions sneaking in?

I think I have found some message to DP from another woman. That is a whole other story. But when I spoke to him about it he had an explaination and asked;

"Don't you trust me?"

Now of course I want to trust him, anything like this would be completely out of character and totally out of the blue, but what if it's true?

How can I say; "yes, I trust you but trust doesn't mean blindly accepting anything that happens, and I want to find out a bit more about this?"

Does "Don't you trust me?" always = guilty?

[Aislingorla]

Not necessarily.
Did the messages make you suspicious?

[Renaissance227]

Any more info you can give us here?

[BibiBlocksberg]

Why is this thread duplicated exactly from what it was last week? Didn't you like the answers you got OP?

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/relationships/1263699-Dont-you-trust-me

[technotronic]

Looks like it posted twice originally and someone has answered the duplicate thread today.