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Don't you trust me?

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Millington Wed 20-Jul-11 20:49:08

What can you say to this question when you desperately want to trust the person but have some suspisions sneaking in?

I think I have found some message to DP from another woman. That is a whole other story. But when I spoke to him about it he had an explaination and asked;

"Don't you trust me?"

Now of course I want to trust him, anything like this would be completely out of character and totally out of the blue, but what if it's true?

How can I say; "yes, I trust you but trust doesn't mean blindly accepting anything that happens, and I want to find out a bit more about this?"

Does "Don't you trust me?" always = guilty?

Aislingorla Wed 20-Jul-11 20:54:03

Not necessarily.
Did the messages make you suspicious?

Renaissance227 Tue 26-Jul-11 14:40:19

Any more info you can give us here?

BibiBlocksberg Tue 26-Jul-11 15:05:20

Why is this thread duplicated exactly from what it was last week? Didn't you like the answers you got OP?

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/relationships/1263699-Dont-you-trust-me

technotronic Tue 26-Jul-11 15:25:21

Looks like it posted twice originally and someone has answered the duplicate thread today.

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