He recieved a text on his phone, he was communicating with one woman for about a week dirty texts, sent her a picture of his downstairs etc Ok so I confronted him today and he said he met her on a dating site and it was a one off etc..I did not believe him.but being the person I am I went into his hotmail account and found sites he has been visiting notifications etc but he keeps on lying saying it is not him... I set up a couple of profiles to find him on these sites and its him...I have asked him to leave 5 minutes ago...he is packing his things going back to his parents...I am so livid right now!!
He's lying to you. You need to get to the bottom of this before you decide what to do. If (IF) he is truly repentant, you have something to discuss. If he continues to lie, well...you know what you're dealing with.
This would be an absolute dealbreaker for me too, I certainly wouldn't marry him, but that's not my choice to make here. Well done for getting him to leave, that took guts and you need him out of the way so you can get your head straight and decide what to do next.
Hi everyone...didnt get much sleep last night but maybe understandable..thx for the replies...I just dont get it!! He was devoted to me (well so i thought), but he appears to have a darkside, one of the sites was a site intentionally designed to have affairs find a partner for sex or erotic chat in the area...I had to create my own profile to track him on there and find him, which wasn't hard... he text me today saying it was one stupid mistake but he registerd on 5 different sites that I know of..I told him that I want to cancel everything with the wedding, yea I feel that there is a big void but seroiusly if I was advising anyone of my family and friends saying the same thing ...Dont marry him x
yes Lilyloo..I told him, why does he lie? I am not stupid and as I unveil it all, it now makes sense how devious he has been. I have cancelled the wedding and I am very sure that I dont want to continue with our relationship. I know we have a lot of talking to do regarding the child as I am due in December. Yes the last few days I am having my ups and downs but it is starting to sink in..x