DD is nearly 9 weeks old. We had quite a traumatic pregnancy, and I tore badly during labour (over an hour of stitching) and have been left with nerve damage in my bum (its numb!). Bar the numb bum bit, recovery has gone well I think.
Anyhow, DH and I had a rather lovely kiss and cuddle last night and I just knew he wanted more but I just can't bring myself to do it. He was flicking all the right switches but for whatever reason, I've got a great big mental barrier there. I'm EBF and also rather repulsed by my saggy body still and as for down there, I think the word cavernous springs to mind. I don't want to have a sexless marriage! I want to have that closeness and intimacy with DH again. I know its relatively early days, but then I feel I want to have that part of my life back too. I guess I'm just after advice really
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Sex after childbirth - can't bring self to do it
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wobblyweeble82 · 17/07/2011 08:34
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