Ex P has abandoned DS in the truest sense of he word. There relationship has been strained for well....ever.
Ex P is a violent aggressive and ultimately abusive man. This resulted in beating me so badly when I was pregnant I was hospitalized with broken and and nose etc. I was an idiot and stuck by him even through a restraining order after he beat me up and left DS i an incredibly dangerous position.
Despite this I have still fought hard for Ds and ex p to have a relationship independent of me (to hard possibly), hard when he turns up drunk or on drugs fro the night before.
The violence didn't stop with me and DS did on occasion bear the brunt. Ex p has i the past grabbed DS so hard around the arm etc it has bruised.
SO any way no that ex p and I are not and he can't control us he has ZERO interest in DS and has made no effort to contact him at important times. There relationship is over and now I have I can't stand he thought of DS having this mans name over mine and my family's who love and adore him through the most testing time bought about by ex p.
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Removing ex p's last name from ds's, possible?
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bristolcities · 16/07/2011 22:04
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