H and I are on the verge of divorce. I can write a long list of things that aren't right starting by his non involvement with the dcs to his total inability to communicate (I mean talking - about something, anything would be a start). At some point he could easlily have fallen into the category of EA althought he has made a big effort and this isn't a issue anymore.
However, as soon as I mentioned the fact things aren't right between us (like as I mentioned the fact I felt sad over the state of our relationship as I didn't think we are going anywhere), he starts crying and I just can not tell him it is over. It's like my rescue/supportive side kickes off and I find myself reassuring him instead .
We've had one these conversations a few days ago and I am finding myself in a position where I will try (again) to make it work. Even though We've bee there before and it didn't work. Even though, after all these years, I have lost trust and can't see how I could recover from that.
So how on earth will I be able to tell him it's finished?
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I want to get divorced but don't seem the gut to do it
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MadamM · 16/07/2011 21:41
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