Hi all, I'm a first time poster, and really wanted my Mumsnet debut to be something fun and fabulous but it is not to be.
I caught my DH watching porn last night - he doesn't know I saw him, and I'm feeling really insecure. He's gone off to the gym this morning, and I couldn't even look at him.
I know it seems like a mountain out of a molehill, but we are a very strictly religious family - he's more staunch than me, and I would never have thought he would do this in a million years.
I know I'm not a size zero -far from it, but I do make every effort with my appearance, and now I just feel so betrayed. Add that to the fact that we were both virgins when me met, have been married for 15 years, and due to his 'low sex drive' (he only wants sex once a fortnight, and would happily go without - its me who always initiates things) , I always seem to be compromising myself for him.
What shall I do...he will be back in an hour and I just don't know how to handle it. The kids are asleep and I can't leave them, otherwise I would just get in my car and drive somewhere far away :( .
Any advice would be much appreciated.
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I'm so upset, I can't think straight. Sorry, long thread.
eva123 · 16/07/2011 07:55
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