Me and Dh have been together almsot 10 yrs but lately it just ssems like theres nothing there anymore .
I do love him but I have no sex drive lately whereas his is very high, This is probably the basis to most of our problems. I want a bit more affection and he wants me to be im the mood more its like a vicious circle.
We have a very busy stressful life Dh works but when hes home all he wants to do is sit in front of the tv, wont help round the house (I dont expect much help but a bit would really help me out), doesnt play with DC, etc Yet hes more than happy to do his hobbies football etc.
He seems secretive when it comes to his friends and when we go out as a couple hes really different around them. I really dont think he'd cheat on me.
We just seem to be constantly argueing and Im really starting to feel this is the end of the line for us weve tried sorting things but just get no where.
Im not keen on the thought of marrigae counselling, has it helped anyone? Also dont see the point in a break again has anyone dont this and it helped?
Just feels like we want different things, hes not the same man I married. I feel like a single mum most of the time and I just dont see a way foward atm.
Its hard to get everything across but I hope that makes sense.
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imawigglyworm · 11/07/2011 11:41
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