Ok, so met a guy online, chatted via email for a day, then he called me the next day, spoke, seemed nice and we arranged a date for the following day (Wednesday).
I know he's married but is separated, which is all well and good, but there are a few flags showing and I would appreciate others POV.
He calls me during his work hours, texts only once or twice in the evening but is constantly texting during the day. When we went for dinner, he went to the toilet and was in there for approximately 10 minutes, which is a long time by my normal standards lol. We arranged a meet for Monday, he texts me during the day as usual, tries to call etc.
So Friday at around 5pm I get a text to say not to worry if I don't hear from him over the weekend as he feels a little ropey and Monday maybe 50:50. I don't text back because there isn't much to say. I then get an email from him last night through the dating website apologising for the lack of texts, his phone charger is at work. He then wants to re-arrange Monday for Wednesday.
I've rain checked him because I've a feeling he is still very much married and just wanting a dolly bird to string right along. What are your thoughts? I don't mind dating men who are separated or going through divorce etc, but there is no way on earth I'd want to be part of a marraige!
Would you nip it in the bud? He says his marriage has been sexless for 5 years, another flag of 'I just want to fuck you' but I don't want to become cynical, although this online dating lark makes one question normality and if it actually exists.
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