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(26 Posts)
LongGoneBeforeDaylight Sat 09-Jul-11 15:01:42

Still kiss (properly) when it is not a pre-cursor to sex?

allbie Sat 09-Jul-11 15:07:38

Yes. About half hour the kitchen whilst the kids were elsewhere. He has very kissable lips.

UsingMainlySpells Sat 09-Jul-11 15:08:52

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Meow75 Sat 09-Jul-11 15:10:10


LongGoneBeforeDaylight Sat 09-Jul-11 15:12:58

You see me and my DP don't very often. We're affectionate in other ways - spoon on sofa to watch tv quite often, hold hands when walking etc - and have regular sex and we kiss - just pecks - all the time. But we don't (for want of a better word) snog. Is there nobody else like this?

Madlizzy Sat 09-Jul-11 15:14:07

You're not on your own. We don't either.

JambalayaCodfishPie Sat 09-Jul-11 17:13:49

Yup, a lot. smile

MsEwe Sat 09-Jul-11 17:16:10

Yes lots, every day and we hug.

We even flirt with each other with out it leading to sex, its just to make the other person feel good and loved.

ThisMomentusDay Sat 09-Jul-11 22:57:39

Never! Well hardly ever, he's just not a kisser!! Never was, very affectionate otherwise though so i don't mind!! (much!) smile)

iklboo Sat 09-Jul-11 23:04:48

Yes. Several times a day!

MonkeysInShoes Sun 10-Jul-11 10:35:54

Nope. Snogging before sex only.

Lots of little kisses, hugs, cuddling etc but no snogging.

WhereTheWildThingsWere Sun 10-Jul-11 10:43:19

Yes, often.

DramaInPyjamas Sun 10-Jul-11 10:48:55

Not as much as we used to, but still quite often.

ledkr Sun 10-Jul-11 11:12:26

We dont much but funnily enough he snogged me this morning before he left and i cant wait for him to get back now,we are going thru the new baby sex drought but its defo got me interested grin

madmomma Sun 10-Jul-11 14:04:41

my dp and I only snog before sex but are v affectionate and loving & are very happy together. My ex husband and I however, snogged lots and had a very unhappy marriage. go figure. Relationships are just different. If you're happy and you love each other, that's all that matters.

Squitten Sun 10-Jul-11 16:14:00

No, we don't. Little pecks, hugs, etc, but not snogging. DH would love to I think but I've never been that into kissing. I think it's because I'm pretty sure I never saw my parents or any other adults in my family kiss. Ever.

Hufflepuzzpig Sun 10-Jul-11 16:33:21

Yes, but not as much as we used to. Because usually the DCs are around. Lots of smooching rather than snogging IYSWIM. smile

eslteacher Sun 10-Jul-11 16:51:25

It does tend to be before sex for us. Otherwise we are physically affectionate (ie little non-snog kisses, hugs etc) but we don't snog a whole lot unless its leading up to sex. In fact, I think we tend to use a snog as a signal to the other that we want/are up for sex...

RoseC Sun 10-Jul-11 16:52:41

Yes, every day. But we don't have DCs yet - I imagine that will make a difference.

lou33 Sun 10-Jul-11 16:53:55


M0naLisa Sun 10-Jul-11 19:41:52

normally we are but today hes hardly said a word to me all day cos hes in a mood sad sad God knows what about aswell. woke up in a mood, face like thunder. sad

birdofthenorth Sun 10-Jul-11 19:46:12

Kiss many times a day, snog occasionally but it is often a precursor to sex. Miss those hour long snog sessions now I think about it!

AgainWhen Sun 10-Jul-11 21:01:15


AnyFucker Sun 10-Jul-11 21:04:16

no not really

proper full-on snogs happen as a precursor to, or during, sex

we have been together for 25+ years though smile

a peck only.....unless shagging is on the cards

sophielouise21 Sun 10-Jul-11 21:55:14

he only kisses me when he wants sex.. during sex we dont kiss..

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