In some ways, it's more of a IABU than anything else but it's a too scary place for me to go atm.
I am on the verge of splitting up with H and currently looking at how I could support myself and the dcs wo him.
So, I went to CAB this week to check what I would be entitled to re working tax credit, child tac crdit etc... Based on their calculation + my current income + H maintenance, I would be getting about £400 a week, so £1600 a month (if all goes to plan).
Now in my book, this would be enough for all 3 of us to live on, pay the morgage etc...
The CAB advisor told me there is no way i could afford to pay the morgage on the house with that. That this was very little to live on and I would really struggle.
Could you tell me whether I am totally deluded or is she? That sort of disposible income sounds OK to me but she suddenly fricked me out completely and I am having second thought on whether splitting up just now is such a good idea after all.
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Splitting up - how much do you need to live on?
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