TBH I've always had my reservations about this relationship, at first as usual things were great, we got on so well we had a fab time together, fantastic sex, he was very supportive, felt he was always there for me. As it got to about a year of being together, I started to feel a little apprehensive about it because I felt he didn't really bother with me as much, only saw him once a week and every other weekend, his communication when not together was not great, and I just felt a bit let down and lonely if I'm honest. Also at this point I had still not met any of his family, wereas other family members like his sister had a new bf and her bf was involved with his family pretty much straight away. He left me alone at xmas and easter while he spent it with his family, this upset me too. However when we were together, things were great. Eventually I did meet his Mum, all was fine and the relationship was good when I did actually see him. Another year past and we talked about buying a house together, we looked around houses together, I was so excited. I bought the house in the end, as I had the most equity and inheritance from my Mum recently dieing, also that in a way gave me some securityThe only way he will communicate is by text, even in the same house. He seems to live in his own world which he likes and just comes across as very moody and selfish. He had a bad marriage breakup and can't seem to move on, so basically I will never get what I want out of the relationship. I have asked him to move out as I'm not happy and I really can't see it working, he won't, says he will try harder. I jst don't think he will change, but he won't go. I don't want to get nasty as there are children involved, his and mine, but the hell can I do, I could give him another chance but I just don't trust him to change so many things have happened to make me resent him and not have the same feelings for him, he just won't accept it!!!!
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In my head the relationship has ended but he won't go!
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lovesun · 05/07/2011 10:36
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