Im having a bit of a difficulty with my dp. He was married for almost 20 years and is now separated and dating myself. When I met him I did not know he was married and when I found out I told him that I didnt date married men. He subsequently separated (albeit he was staying in the annex to the marital home due to financial difficulties etc). for a few months but was separted as in his family were told, her family/friends etc. He now has an apartment and our relationship is going from strength to strenght.
My issue is that I seem to be getting the cold shoulder from his family. We were out having a drink last nite and one of his sisters arrived in. This was my first time meeting her and I tried to be as friendly as I could, offered a drink etc etc, she was quite cool with me and I basically chatted to one of her friends while she talked to my boyfriend. She seemed to object to the fact that he had left his ex and was continually asking him if he was dating me while still with his ex. He explained to her that he was separated and had been for a year now, had lived in the annex until financially he was able to move out and now he had. She was so rude to me and honestly it angered me so much. I bit my tongue and said nothing but I wonder if its constantly going to be this way with his family.
What I should mention is that her husband had an affair and left, something I dont think she has ever gotten over. Should I have challenged her last nite when I overheard her talking about myself/dp relationship or was I right to say nothing.
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