You feel unloved and incapable of loving back. You have realised that you will never have an intelligent/stimulating conversation with her, be able to share your worries with her or have that kind of understanding which comes just by looking in one another's eyes. She may have realised as well that you are not the romantic, charming person that she thought you were and actually you are quite lazy and boring and moody. Although you do always make up after a fight, with every episode you are left with a bitterness in your heart. She thinks you are an insensitive, stone hearted brute incapable of understanding her emotions. You think she is a self centred drama queen, incapable of having a rational argument.
However, you have lovely kids. Young kids, starting school and you both love them and they love you. They appear happiest when both of you are together and happy. They curl up when you fight or argue.
Maybe you can cut out the fights and arguments but you can't manufacture the feelings between the two of you that you just don't have.
Do you end it all and just leave the kids to deal with a broken home or you swallow it to keep a facade for the sake of your children?
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Should you keep a marriage going just for the sake of children?
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stupidconfusedmale · 01/07/2011 13:38
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