Quick summary:
Dh has no short term memory, forgets stuff from 5 minutes ago, even BIG stuff e.g. a death in the family.
This I can cope with but his agression and mood swings is just sooo hard to live with. I have had a good 6 months of being continutally on egg shells around him, dreading the next outburst.
But on the flip side he is otherwise a lovely man, great with the kids ( unless he's in a mood of course).
We were so happy together before all this came upon us, not sure what the casue is ( stress ?? Depression ??) how long it will last will he ever be "right" again.
I feel a total, total failure as a wife, I have let him down, I am just the WORST person he could have as a carer. But I feel like I can't take anymore, but than I think , "but its ILLNESS" and then everyone will look at me and think I am a complete b*h for treatign him like this.
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kitty4paws · 28/06/2011 20:04
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