Went out tonight with DH and friends for someone's birthday. I decided not to drink because DH and I are having a hard time at the moment and I know it brings out the worst in me. We had a nice evening (DH a bit tipsy, but really OK). We're waiting to pay the bill and conversation turns to paying bills. DH starts up on how when we went out with my family for my birthday DH offered to pay and my dad took him up on the offer. FFS, my family are super generous with us, with money and their time and hospitality and babysitting. (His family are shit and mean). I got really pissed off and said something along the lines of " shut the fuck up or I'm off". He carried on. I walked out and went home. This was about 90 mins ago. He's texted to check if I got home, but is still out. I'm pissed off that as usual my parents are babysitting, I organised the friend's present, I didn't drink because I thought it would have made a nice evening more likely. DS is with my parents over night so we could have had fun and a nice lie in, instead I'll have DH and his hang over and then have DS without any help. And DH works 2 saturdays in 3 so a weekend we can spend all together is precious. I actually feel like throwing up. I know it's a bit of an over reaction. And money's tight and I bet he's out drinking. I just don't know why I bother.
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