long story but i know my parents have never really wanted me , i was never quite good enough . 99% in an exam would be greeted with well never mind you can do better next time etc
i'm pretty sure my mother is a narcissist and my father just tows the line . i and my children and have always been the black sheep and my sisters and their dcs the golden children .
i broke off contact 4 years ago for more than a year but then unable to deal with the guilt , i got back in touch just over 3 years ago . my father often phoned stressing what a good education i'd been given etc .
things were better to begin with but are back in the same old rut now . mother will phone talk about herself for 20 mins then ask x was asking after you , si i phoned , after a minute of our news it's "sorry got to make a cup of tea must go" .
final straw was my father phoned a few days ago to say thank you for his birthday card and present and told me all about the wonderful meal he'd had with my sisters and their families and we didn't bother to invite you because we knew you'd be too busy
really feel hurt , ostracized and know they don't want me in their lives so why bother .
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i never want to see my parents again but scared of letting go
DessertsInReverse · 25/06/2011 14:54
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