DH and I have been struggling for a while (can't remember when we last had sex) we co exist well enough looking after two children under 5.
But mostly I am happy that he goes to bed early and leaves before I get up.
He is away on training for work for 6 weeks, too far to come home. We thought the children and I might come down to him but it is not working out that way.
The children and I are making a blog for him so that he knows what we are up to, using one of DDs toys as the main character. He took another toy to act as his character but has written 2 posts in over a week. Telling the children that the cat is 'sleeping'.
I guess that is not really relevant but a bit annoying as they are asking.
We phone him every night time to chat and say goodnight. I put the phone on loudspeaker and interpret for both parties where needed.
Then we say night night.
That is the only contact I have with him.
He doesn't text or call us. Prob cos he waits till we call though. We are busy, so it is best not to call during the day. About the same reason I don't call him.
But neither of us seem to be fussed about the fact that the only time we talk to one another is through the children once a day.
But it's not that different to normal.
The children go to bed by 8, he is normally in his by 930 the time in between he spends on the laptop.
I do the things I want to, crafts, laptop time, TV etc then am in bed by 11-12ish. I am a night owl, always have been.
Life is less stressful with just me and the children moseying along.
When DH is around, at weekends, it gets tense.
Ok not every weekend, I admit.
oh maybe I am just talking tired. But I did wonder, when he went away if it would give me time to miss him, or not.
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DH away working for 6 weeks. I am not bothered. Should I be worried about that?
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