Several years ago my husband was friends/working partner with a wealthy but arrogant artist, much older than him. For some reason this man took a disliking to me (he is gay and as far as I know my DH isnt bi) and did everything he could to stop DH marrying me. He landed my husband in a huge financial mess right before our wedding and I was furious.
I told DH that I didnt want this awful man in our lives. It turned out that most of DH's friends strongly disliked this man. He wrote DH an emotional letter saying that 'it seems that unless a certain somebody dies, we shall no longer be in contact'. Ive interpreted that weird comment to mean that he wished me dead. DH defends his friend and says that it just means he could not be in contact with this man whilst Im alive.
Now, 7 years later, this man has contacted my husband again and they had the longest, most warmest conversation on the phone today. My husband was clearly arranging things and kicking off the friendship again. He said that there is no point in harbouring negative feelings. With someone who wished your wife dead?
Am I over-reacting to think that he should be loyal to me and tell this man politely to bugger off? Is this what you can expect from someone who apparently loves you?
any thoughts appreciated thankyou
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is this what you would expect from someone who loves you?
vannah · 18/06/2011 21:44
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