For lots of different reasons I do not want to be with dh anymore. Were it not for the children we would have gone our separate ways I am sure. As usual, since it is the weekend and dh is here, I feel down and withdrawn. I feel intimidated by his sarcasm and short temper and kind of wait till Monday to start living again - unless that is somebody is coming to our house and then I can relax more. However, kids are 5, 7 and 9 and can't get my head round seeing them less. I think it's right that many mothers and fathers now get shared care but don't know if I could handle seeing them only 50% of the time . Also can't get my head round the fact that their world would implode .
There are lots of things I need to sort out in the house but because of the situation between dh and I or the way he is, I feel totally unable to get on and do them - does this sound familiar or am I making excuses??
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To people who have separated, how do you get over the pain of seeing your children less?
shocked2 · 18/06/2011 15:11
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