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What do you wish on your Ex?

(74 Posts)
crispyseaweed Wed 15-Jun-11 19:02:24

Not a lot... here.
Its taken 3-5 years to feel good about it all.
I have to say I wish him nothing good, but as usual, he has come up smelling of Roses. Grrh ! He always lands on his feet (very annoying) and financially is doing better than he has ever done.
As for me, its the usual, . . . . counting every penny!

davidsotherhalf Wed 15-Jun-11 19:08:37

not going to repeat what i would wish on my exh....after yrs of abuse he told dd she reminds him of me and deserves a beating everytime he sees her

MamaLazarou Wed 15-Jun-11 19:18:48

Love, happiness, good health and a long life.

BluddyMoFo Wed 15-Jun-11 19:19:44

Message withdrawn at poster's request.

SuePurblybilt Wed 15-Jun-11 19:21:37

camel fleas

HauntedLittleLunatic Wed 15-Jun-11 19:22:19

That his owdh finds our and gives him a good kicking.

But otoh, for the dc's sake, I hope he doesn't if that makes sense.

LeoTheLateBloomer Wed 15-Jun-11 19:25:53

That his cock shrinks to the size of a raisin Health and happiness now he's met someone new grin

Conflugenglugen Wed 15-Jun-11 19:25:56

Love, peace, detachment, happiness.

prettywhiteguitar Wed 15-Jun-11 19:27:01

searing heartburn everytime he drinks for the rest of his life, he already has a nasty fungal toe nail

Snorbs Wed 15-Jun-11 19:29:50

I hope my ex finally sorts herself out and manages to be a good, consistent and reliable mother to our children.

I wouldn't wish anything bad on her. I don't care enough about her either way to be bothered. Anyway, there is nothing I could think of that is worse than the crap she's done all by herself.

Wellnerfermind Wed 15-Jun-11 19:32:27

Happiness, good health, long life...

SirSugar Wed 15-Jun-11 19:37:03

good luck, it was fantastic whilst it lasted, but don't ever come a knocking on my door again x

pfbornot Wed 15-Jun-11 19:45:28

Ex 1: Wish that he would feel how he made me feel. Hope he is on the receiving end of the same sort of behaviour I was and realises and is ashamed of the way he treated me.

Ex 2: Wish him nothing but happiness.

Sassybeast Wed 15-Jun-11 19:46:39

Same as Suepurblybilt but without the nails to scratch them wink

K999 Wed 15-Jun-11 19:51:04

Don't wish anything bad for him. He is the father of dd1 who adores him. He was a shit husband but trys his best to be a good dad and thats all I wish for him really - to continue being the best dad he can be.

iklboo Wed 15-Jun-11 19:53:50

A conscience.

ballstoit Wed 15-Jun-11 19:57:14

A job and a conscience...maybe he would contribute to the DC then hmm

memphis83 Wed 15-Jun-11 19:58:56

That the dodgy debt collectors who knocked on my door saying as his wife my kneecaps are as good as his find him and take what is owed to them, and if he hasnt got money and has to pay in kneecaps hey ho!!

humptydidit Wed 15-Jun-11 19:59:36

would second that ballstoit

although would be quite happy if he fucked off and never came back again... Trust me it would be no loss to me or dc's

deburca Wed 15-Jun-11 19:59:45

that he would wake up one morning and find he is in love with a female version of himself. Believe me that would pain him for the rest of his days. thank goodness i dont care for him that way anymore!

bubaluchy Wed 15-Jun-11 20:01:53

happiness, health, prosperity and freedom,
my ex boss on the other hand... well she can reap what she continually sews

AmazingBouncingFerret Wed 15-Jun-11 20:02:18

That he hadnt died when he was just turned 19 and that he had lived to have a wonderful life/wife/children.

bubaluchy Wed 15-Jun-11 20:03:22

amazingbouncingferret sad x

notevenamousie Wed 15-Jun-11 20:04:01

I wish on him an interest in his daughter. A knowledge of that amazing love that so, so many fathers have. A realization at what his absence and rejection do to her.

ladyGeraldine Wed 15-Jun-11 20:04:28

That there truely is karma and that it bites him, that he makes some effort to make it up to kids.

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