hi- I have two children and am divorced. In short I have met a new man and introduced him to my children and he has introduced his to me. We all got on well and liked each other. I have been seeing my new man for about 9 months and as our children range from 15- 19, expect for his little girl of 8. it is relatively easy to have an early meal together and be back in our respective homes early evening. At weekends, we manage to go for walks whilst our children are with our ex partners. I like it this way. However, I feel under pressure from him- and have told him- to spend more of our little-and precious- time together with his children. i really don't want to play happy families too much. I like to bring mine up independently and am happy for them to say hello and have a chat, but I don't want joint hols etc. Am I normal? Am I being unreasonable? Opinions please. Many thanks
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