it is like a checklist for my marriage. It is almost like he has been perched in the corner of all the rooms in our house spying on us.
My eyes are officially open and I feel weak no more. I will be in contact with Women's Aid this week who hopefully will help me with an exit plan. I will be out of here by September and scared and controlled no more
Can't believe I have spent so many years living like this.
for some tips on staying safe while you plan to leave, remember abusive men often become more abusive the more they think that we are trying to get away from them, so try to stay safe and grey and boring like in the link.