Hi first thing i would like to apologise for my english as is not my first language.
I am a single mother of 3 no by choice; my first husband died 13 years ago, and then i went on to married again 4 years ago, i got pregnant very early into the relationship, and as i started dealing with numerous issues in my life i supose due to been hormonal as other ways I am supose to be a strong person e.g eldest son is autistic second daugthers was in hospital at this time and was diagnosed with an illness that has not cure but can be controlled, similar to lupus.
And when i was nine years old i was molested by my maternal grandfather once and all this just keept coming back into my head. my then boyfriend became controlling and jelous acusing me of cheating on him with my cousin's husband (sick) he's not good at all not for my cousin never mine for me.
As became frustrated he tought i was rejecting him, but i was just tired as i was working full time as teaching assitant with autistic children, and i needed to concentrate on what i was doing in the class room.
never mind 1 nigth he just started crying and told me what has happened between him and his sister aparently she seduced him 1 nigth when he was 12 and she was 15 after he catch her nearly having sex with one of his dad workers, after that they continued to have sex for 3 years.
And at the time she left our country of origin and came to live in england and meet her husband, they got married and my ex , follow her here after 3 years i belive.
their family is very very disfunctional their mother walked out on their father and left them with him, he is a peadophile and he prefers girls between 9 an 14 i belive.
what made me feel sick is that our marriage din't last because he's very much in live with his sister and he acused me of using he's past.
But is not normal that he hasn't managed to have a normal relationship with anyone, I was the closed to normal.
I am sahring this story because, even now after 3 years that with has been separated i love him even if i preten to the rest of the world that I don't, but in top of that i woorry about our litle girl; how would this affect her when she is big enough to understand?
he see her very often but must of the time in my house as i don't fully trust him, can somebody help me please? I am on antidepressants because i was so afected by this all that i tried to commit suicide twice. I had psychotherapy and counselling but still i feel this deep sadness inside.
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Marien65uk · 28/04/2011 16:05
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I don't blame TSC for being 
And Quelle has answered the question with Stay as far the fuck away from him and his freakshow of a family as you can. Don't tell your DD anything about it, why would you?
I don't think anyone is being particularly unkind.
ffs, MN at it's worst, yet again
if you think it's a troll fucking well e-mail MNHQ.
this makes me so angry 
Marien, I am sorry peoiple have responded like that. sometiems when people read something shocking their response is to pretend it isn't true... that's their problem, not yours and you shouoldn't let them put you off posting.
as for what you should do... I do think that it would benefit you to have more counselling/therapy so that you can come to terms with this and move on...
I don't like trollhunting. But I think it's only fair to the OP that somebody points out that her post is a little - if only to explain why she's not getting hundreds of responses.
But yes, Quelle answered the question and she is right - no need to tell the dd and keep the fuck away from the freakshow family
Hopefully someone will come along with some more constructive advice (although for the third time, Quelle has it in a nutshell).
It's not a little Incest does happen but it is not talked about. I disagree that Quelle's advice is at all constructive - calling someone's family a 'freakshow' - how exactly does that help?
I'll bet there are quite a few of us who fell in love with a man who turned out to be something other that what we intially thought.
It doesn't help to kind of dehumanise people either though - people are the way they are for a reason. I object to anyone being called a freak. Anyway, looks like the OP has disappeared 
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