I have a friend who was my best friend all through high school we have drifted somewhat since, she is very good at big jestjers (sp) such as arrangements for my hen do, righting on my facebook wall when i had my DC along the lines of if i needed anything, ie help with baby, cleaning ect she will be there. But reality is she has met DS 3 times and he is now 2.
The thing is when i see her she always makes snide comments which really bother me. But they are always said with a smile and i if i ever react negitively to the comment she is like oooooo touchy.
Examples of sinde comments
DS was newborn when she turned up unannouncyed and when DS was with me and crying and i passed him to DH and said he just likes a change now and again she said " i think he just prefers your DH to you"
Clothes shopping, i suggest a shop she says "there is nothing in there that will fit you" i am a size 14. This was said about 9 years ago, why does it stay with me?
There are many more comments, i feel over sensitive to them, i think if someone else said them it wouldnt bother me so much, but then i dont think others would make these comments.
Not sure why im posting, i feel i dont want to be friends but know she wouldnt understand why
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lucky24 · 22/04/2011 22:32
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