i havent had to post on here for ages but sadly im back, im 10 weeks pg so my hormones are raging and i need some help to get my paranoid insecure head around this!
dp gets quite a few crappy emails in his junk mail from sex/chat/date sites and other weird medical sites offering to make his manhood bigger (i find those quite funny) i know they are from when he has looked at porn in the past which is something that does offend me but i know most blokes to it sometimes but he hasnt for ages or he is very good at covering his tracks. now normally these messages when you click on them are to a totally diff email address than the one they have come through on so i do accecpt they are just crap. but last week we had a bit of an argument and i went to bed at 8pm i knew he had been on the laptop but he must of figured out how to do in private browsing, since then he has got more emails going in his junk saying things like, hey baby loved chatting to you when can we do it again? and stuff like that, and these ones are to his exact email address but they do go straight into junk, and a few say exactly the same thing.
Yesterday we almost finished over this he denies every going on theses chat sites i just dont know what to believe, i could cope with just looking at porn but if he is chatting then i cannot accecpt that?
does other peoples dp's or dh's get these emails do they mean nothing?
this sort of argument has cropped up before and i feel like he is pulling the wool over my eyes but he isnt really that kind of bloke?
i am insecure and suspicious and paranoid but its because of things like this that keeps it going and now im back to feeling like i have to check up on him and try to catch him out? it isnt healthy and not good for my stress or the relationship. but i know my hormones are playing a big part in this too?
please help x
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can you shed some light on emails from porn chat sites etc
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neverlookback · 23/01/2011 08:13
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