Right, well, I have been here a loooong time but have name changed for this.
I came to these boards when I found out about my stbxh's affair and the advice here was great and really helped. I went through hell for 3 years but I am now in the process of divorcing him.
So now I am testing the water and have frequented some dating sites and have been speaking to a gorgeous guy who is far too young for me and we got to talking about what we like. It turns out I love being dominated and he was looking for a sub.
Sooo, we have been texting, emailing and now speaking to each other and the whole idea is driving me mad with desire. I am actually short of breath when he suggests things.
This is something I hadn't even thought about before but I definitely want to see this through. He wants to meet and I would love to.
But I wanted to ask here is anyone has been/is a sub? What is expected of you? Where is the best place to look for advice/ideas?
Sorry, I know it isn't Friday yet - but nearly!!
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Can anyone talk to me about sub/dom relationships?
CuriousSub · 10/12/2010 00:11
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