Is it me? or has the marriage which has been based around work made me this way?
Really I cant win what with doing everything, trying to constantly please. I cant remember him being that affectionate in the past only when he wants sex. So the pressures of life, work and children hasnt given me much free time to cuddle etc. I cant remember our times together being rapped up in each others arms.
If I cuddle him or do anything affectionate it doesnt mean sex. He's gone off in a right huff this morning as I'm not giving him enough.
He had sex on the weekend which was good but it doesnt mean I want it constantly, I dont need it like him. Once a week is fine and realistic in my hetic life.
How can I change my ways? honestly just to keep the piece. I'm not fussed on being over mauled either. Yes, I do keep my distance.
God, if I get this right I'm going to be the perfect wife. We've gone through a bad patch and he is trying more now but he's far far the perfect father/husband.
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I'm not affectionate enough!
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bacon · 09/12/2010 11:01
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