Hello Mnetters
Okay....bit of a problem all advice welcomed.
DC's have a couple of friends(who are sisters), they have been at our house most days for the last week and a half - turning up at 9.30 and being here all day.
Yesterday they turned up at 5.00 and stayed til 7.00 (I said they had to go home...stupid DH let them in) when I took Dc's to bed 5 of the bed slatts had been knocked out because the two girls had been jumping on the bed (DH told them to stop) and a few other things have happened...they have been physicaly aggressive to DS's.
They only go home to eat at dinner time and I'm not kidding you, they are getting the DC's to ask me if they can have snacks, dinner etc every bloody hour. We are a big family and really can't afford to feed these kids - we have no fruit, crisps etc left in the house now.
To be frank their mum doesn't seem to give a flying arse where they are...if they are being fed. I am tired of being a babysitter all day every day, they just turn up at the house with nobody adult with them.
For example the other day I didn't even know they were here until one of them walked into the kitchen.
They helped themselves to apples from the fridge on thursday and DS told me today that they were looking in the freezer (it's in the shed) to see what they could have.
I spoke to my bessie mate today and she thinks that it's disgraceful neglect so I really want some other views and help with how to get rid of them....I know that sounds awful but I have enough to deal with with my own kids and really can't feed extra kids every day.
The DC's go to the same school as them and we live in the same place so as you can see it needs to be handled carefully.
Thanks for reading and replying
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tillywee · 16/08/2010 18:47
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