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What is this woman up to??

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Paperdenim · 25/07/2010 02:30

Sorry it's a late one. My DP is at a family party, there is a woman there who is much older than both me and DP and always embarrased herself by flirting with DP- last time was 'sexy' dancing pissed in front of him whilst he was trying to escape.

I'm not there tonight and she has been sending me odd facebook messages
1st around an hour ago said 'really missed you tonight.' weird cos i don't really know her.

2nd about 2 mins ago just saying 'HAVE FUUUUN!!!!!!!!1111'

my mum was there and textedit saying she was all over my dad too and she's a horrible pathetic cougar

what is she upto? Is she tryingro make me paranoid?
I trust Dp totally, but it's really getting on my wick!

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OldLadyKnowsNothing · 25/07/2010 02:39

Ignore her. You know she's pissed, you know she's making a fool of herself, you know your DP isn't interested. Forget it, and try to sleep.

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needafootmassage · 25/07/2010 08:15

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RobynLou · 25/07/2010 08:17

she's just drunk and possibly a bit lonely, she'll probably be mortified in the morning, be sympathetic.

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Anniegetyourgun · 25/07/2010 08:19

She may realise somewhere in the back of her mind that flirting with married men while their wives aren't there is not on, so she's sort of trying to involve you. Clumsy but most likely completely harmless.

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SugarMousePink · 25/07/2010 09:29

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Paperdenim · 25/07/2010 12:00

Thanks alot, you're all totally right! Just needed to get it out! Xxx

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Myleetlepony · 25/07/2010 14:17

Anyone sending FB messages while they are at a party is a sad git surely? Just de-friend her and forget it.

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CaptainNancy · 25/07/2010 14:41

Poor woman- to be pitied rather than feared.

But cougar? Made me snort...

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Coolfonz · 25/07/2010 15:07

Must tell my Mum to cut out the Facebook messages.

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said · 25/07/2010 15:28

I'm nervous curious about how old she is?

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2kids2dogsandahorse · 25/07/2010 20:29

err yes how old do you have to be to be a cougar?

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Speckledeggy · 26/07/2010 09:55

I would block her on Facebook. Best to just ignore her. Sounds like she's a stupid fool who is jealous of you. Remind yourself of that next time she's being a tit and feel smug!

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